Dear Kathryn,
You are heroic to have managed to cook Christmas dinner!
I gave that up many ,many years ago!
I was diagnosed with R.A about 15 years ago when I was
37 or 38 years old.
Luckily for me my partner cooks when he comes over and
so it's ready meals for me the rest of the week - but Marks and Spencers
do some great ones for Vegetarians like me!
It's just the getting into town to buy them that is the problem now that the
weather is so cold!
I am in the middle of a fairly bad flare-up at the moment and it has taken me
by surpize after my 7 month remission!
I do agree with you that when another infection is perceived as a real threat
by our immune systems the fight is waged with the infection instead of our joints and tendons.
I detest R.A and the way it has placed limitations on the things I can do - it's the
knowledge of taking days to get over doing things that I would not have thought twice about
before this disease.
A good example was yesterday when two of my adult sons in their thirties came over to
see me and how one of them noticed me limping as I walked out to the hallway with them
as they were leaving - and I was trying very hard not to limp in front of them.
He looked me straight in the eyes as if to say "Your in pain aren't you?"Well actually, he
looked down into my eye because he's 6'2!
I just looked away and smiled because I want my three kids to remember me the
way I was before all this.
I hope that they remember that I was a reasonably good cook then and who
knows maybe one day I will go into remission again and be able to cook for other
people as well as me.
I hope you are having a lovely relaxing Boxing day,
Best wishes,
Fiona